Somewhere between graduating and your second job, the question changes. It stops being will anyone hire me and becomes is this actually the direction I want. That one is harder, and easy to keep postponing. Partly because there's no deadline. Partly because the honest answer might be inconvenient. Most care...
Most of us start January with a version of the same plan: this year I'll do it differently. More sleep, more exercise, more time for the people I like, and still do well at work. By March it's usually gone. When I asked a group of women a few years into their careers what they find hardest, one of them wrot...
