THE WEEKEND SPECIAL - Polarity, Voice Dialogue & Erotic Blueprints

About this event

𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗪𝗘𝗘𝗞𝗘𝗡𝗗 𝗦𝗣𝗘𝗖𝗜𝗔𝗟
𝘗𝘰𝘭𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘺, 𝘝𝘰𝘪𝘤𝘦 𝘋𝘪𝘢𝘭𝘰𝘨𝘶𝘦, 𝘌𝘳𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘤 𝘉𝘭𝘶𝘦𝘱𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘴 & 𝘊𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘋𝘦𝘱𝘵𝘩
A 2-Day Advanced Practice @ Kokopelli Amsterdam

A deep dive into self-awareness, relational truth, and conscious community.

This Weekend Special is an invitation into a more intimate layer of the Slow Sex Community — a space where we move beyond surface connection and into the living reality of who we are when we meet each other.

Over two full days, we explore not only how we relate, but who is relating.
What moves you when you open?
What closes you when things get real?
Which parts of you take the lead — and which stay hidden?
This is a space to see and be seen more fully.
Not just in your light — but in your complexity.

𝗔𝗻 𝗔𝗱𝘃𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲𝗱 𝗣𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗿𝘀 𝗦𝗽𝗮𝗰𝗲
This weekend is designed for those who have already participated in at least one Thursday Practice and one Saturday or Sunday Special.
Why?
Because this work requires a shared foundation.
We are entering a therapeutic, emotionally layered, and relationally complex space.
To go deep together, we need a common language, a level of embodied awareness, and a willingness to take responsibility for our inner world.
Being an advanced practitioner in this context does not mean being “perfect” or “healed.”
It means:
- you are willing to meet yourself honestly
- you have begun to recognize your inner parts
- you understand the basics of Voice Dialogue and embodied relating
- you are committed to your own process

Depth in community is only possible when individuals are willing to do their inner work.
This container is built on that commitment.

𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗳-𝗗𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗹𝗼𝗽𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗠𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝗦𝗲𝘅-𝗣𝗼𝘀𝗶𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗦𝗽𝗮𝗰𝗲𝘀
In spaces that explore intimacy, desire, and connection, self-awareness is not optional — it is essential.
If we don’t know who we are…
- we cannot clearly feel our boundaries
- we cannot distinguish desire from conditioning
- we cannot recognize when a protective part is in charge

Without self-knowledge, we risk recreating unconscious patterns — even in conscious spaces.
When we begin to understand our inner landscape, something shifts:
we become safer for ourselves
we become safer for others
we develop clarity in our yes and our no
we can meet each other without projection or collapse
From that ground, exploration becomes real.
Play becomes possible.
Connection becomes honest.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗖𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗸: 𝗩𝗼𝗶𝗰𝗲 𝗗𝗶𝗮𝗹𝗼𝗴𝘂𝗲
The primary tool we work with throughout the weekend is Voice Dialogue.
This method allows us to meet and embody the different inner selves that shape our behavior, desires, and relational dynamics.
Rather than analyzing from a distance, we step into direct experience — giving voice to the parts that protect, long, control, seduce, withdraw, and open.
Through this, we strengthen the Aware Ego — the inner capacity to hold multiple parts without being dominated by any of them.
This is where real choice begins.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗦𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗦𝘁𝗿𝗶𝗽 (𝗜𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗿 𝗩𝗼𝗶𝗰𝗲 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝘂𝗺)
A central element of this weekend is the SoulStrip (Inner Voice Forum) — an edgy and powerful group practice.
You are invited (never forced) to step into the center and give space to the voices within you.
Not to perform.
Not to act.
But to allow what is already alive inside you to speak.
Held by the group field, something profound happens:
hidden parts emerge
inner conflicts become visible
deeper layers of truth reveal themselves
The circle becomes a mirror.
A resonance field.
A place where individual process becomes collective learning.

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗪𝗲 𝗪𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗹𝗼𝗿𝗲
Deep Voice Dialogue processes
Polarity work within the psyche
Relational awareness in real-time connection
Emotional integration and embodiment
Nervous system awareness and grounding
Erotic Blueprints® and erotic self-awareness
Community as a mirror for self-discovery
This is experiential, therapeutic work.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗙𝗮𝗰𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘀
This space is guided by Katjalisa, founder of the Slow Sex Movement.
She holds a Master’s degree in Transformational Psychology and is a certified Voice Dialogue facilitator and bodyworker. Her work bridges psychological depth, somatic awareness, and relational intelligence.
On Sunday, Anneke guides the exploration of the Erotic Blueprints® — bringing her grounded, embodied approach to understanding erotic wiring and expression.
All space holders are trauma-informed, ensuring that the depth of this work is met with care, presence, and integrity.

𝗦𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗪𝗲𝗲𝗸𝗲𝗻𝗱
𝘚𝘢𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘥𝘢𝘺 (10:00 – ~18:00)
A mix of Slow Sex practices with a strong focus on SoulStrip Inner Voice Forum work.
We enter the relational field, explore polarity within the psyche, and begin to uncover the inner dynamics that shape how we meet others.

𝘚𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘢𝘺 (10:00 – ~18:00)
A day dedicated to integration, embodiment, and erotic self-discovery.
We explore the Erotic Blueprints®, guided by Anneke — discovering your unique erotic wiring and how it shapes your desires, boundaries, and expression.

Katjalisa weaves in Voice Dialogue throughout, supporting you to recognize and embody the different inner parts that live within your erotic experience.

Through this integration, the work becomes lived — grounded in awareness, choice, and embodied truth.
The day is supported through bodywork, Slow Sex practices, and space for reflection and integration.

𝗟𝘂𝗻𝗰𝗵 𝗕𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗸
1.5 – 2 hours each day
Bring your own food or enjoy lunch out

𝗜𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗴𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 & 𝗧𝗮𝗸𝗲-𝗛𝗼𝗺𝗲
To support your ongoing process, you will receive:
- written materials on Voice Dialogue
- reflection questions
- tools to continue your inner work beyond the weekend

Because this work doesn’t end when the weekend closes — it deepens in how you live, relate, and choose.