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🌿 生命整合历程（LIP）工作坊
一段温柔而具身的生命阶段探索之旅。
生命整合过程（Life Integration Process，简称 LIP）是由 Wilfried Nelles 所发展的一种细腻而深刻的系统工作形式。它建立在一个简单却深远的理解之上：
我们的生命会经历不同阶段，而每一个阶段都会持续存在于我们的内在。早年生命阶段中的经历、决定与适应方式，并不会随着时间消失。当某些阶段没有被真正经历、承认或整合时，它们会继续影响我们今天的感受、关系以及走过人生的方式。
就像蝴蝶依然保有自己曾经是毛毛虫与蛹的记忆一样，我们也始终携带着所有生命阶段的痕迹。
🌿 LIP 能为你带来什么？
一次 LIP 排列可能支持你：
• 在灵魂层面重新遇见自己的生命经历
• 不再带着遗憾、羞耻或自责去看待过去
• 感受到更多内在的平静、清晰与平衡
• 更完整地站在自己当下成人的位置上
LIP 的目标并不是“修复”过去，而是整合它，让你能够更加自由、更加踏实地活在此时此刻。
🌿 在 LIP 工作坊中会发生什么？
在 LIP 工作坊中，关注的重点并不是人与人之间的关系（如经典家庭排列），而是你与自己，以及与你生命不同阶段之间的关系。
你将站在今天这个成人的位置上，扎根于此时此刻。
排列中会为重要的生命阶段设置代表，例如：
• 尚未出生的孩子（你的本质）
• 幼年的自己
• 青春期的自己
每一个阶段都会在一个清晰而被尊重的结构中，拥有属于自己的固定位置。
你将被邀请去看见：什么已经被经历，什么仍未完成，什么渴望被承认与接纳，而这一切都无需评判、责怪，或急于改变什么。
当我们允许过去如其所是时，某些重要的东西便会开始沉淀并整合。
🌿 工作坊信息
📅 2026年6月20日（星期六）
🕥 10:30–16:30（10:00 开始入场）
• 6位 LIP 探索者都将获得一次完整的排列，由场域与代表共同支持。
• 工作坊包含营养丰富的午餐，以及全天提供的茶饮、咖啡与小点心，为你的旅程提供温柔支持。
欢迎你的到来 ❤️
🌸 关于杨梅
我的中文名字叫杨梅。我出生于中国云南，在荷兰生活了超过25年。我一生的工作都围绕着人与文化的连接，从协助中欧跨文化合作，到陪伴海外的华人家庭。我亲眼见证了理解、共情与真诚的连接，能够如何深刻地改变一个家庭在异国他乡的关系与生活。
近年来，我与许多生活在海外的第一代华人父母一起工作。我看见了他们的孤独，看见了他们在与自己成长环境截然不同的文化中养育孩子所面临的挑战，也看见了他们深藏心底的渴望：既想支持孩子成长，又因远离故土、亲人以及年迈的父母而怀抱着深深的牵挂与心酸。
与此同时，我也走进了他们孩子的世界，那些聪明而敏感的第二代年轻人。他们在寻找自我身份，在忠于父母与发出自己声音的渴望之间努力寻找平衡。
能够与第一代和第二代华人分享系统排列与家庭系统排列的工作，对我而言有着特别的意义。我相信这种工作可以成为一座桥梁，一个让连接、理解与信任得以生长的空间。在这个空间里，两代人都有自由做出自己的选择，也能够在更深的、灵魂层面上遇见彼此。
Mei 💗 杨梅
家庭系统排列师｜MEEEI 创始人｜MEEEI心光播客主播
🌐 www.meeei.nl
Make a Difference · Engage · Enable · Empower · Inspire
📞 0613163900
𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗜𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗴𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗣𝗿𝗼𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀 (𝗟𝗜𝗣) 𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗸𝘀𝗵𝗼𝗽
A gentle, embodied journey through the phases of your life.
The Life Integration Process (LIP) is a subtle and profound form of systemic work developed by Wilfried Nelles. It is based on a simple yet powerful understanding:
Our life unfolds in phases, and each phase remains present within us. Experiences, decisions, and adaptations from earlier life phases do not disappear. When certain phases have not been fully lived, acknowledged, or integrated, they can continue to influence how we feel, relate, and move through life today.
Like a butterfly that still carries the memory of being a caterpillar and a chrysalis, we carry all our life phases within us.
𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗻𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝗮 𝗟𝗜𝗣 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝘀𝗵𝗼𝗽?
In a LIP workshop, the focus is not on relationships with others, as in classic family constellations, but on your relationship with yourself and with the different phases of your own life.
You take your place as the adult you are today, firmly rooted in the here and now.
Representatives are placed for key life phases, such as:
• the unborn child (your essence),
• the young child,
• the adolescent.
Each phase has a fixed place within a clear and respectful structure.
You are invited to look at what has been lived, what may still be unfinished, and what wants to be acknowledged — without judgement, blame, or the need to change anything.
By allowing what was to be exactly as it was, something essential can settle and integrate.
𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗟𝗜𝗣 𝗯𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂?
A LIP constellation can support you to:
• meet your life experiences on a soul level,
• integrate the past without regret, shame, or self-blame,
• feel more inner calm, clarity, and balance,
• stand more fully in your adult place in the present.
The aim is not to “fix” the past, but to integrate it — so you can live more freely and grounded in the here and now.
𝗣𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹 𝗶𝗻𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻
Saturday 20 June 2026
10:30–16:30 (arrival from 10:00)
• 6 LIP Explorers will all receive a constellation supported by the field and representatives.
• A tasty, nourishing lunch, with drinks and snacks throughout the day, is included to support your journey.
You are warmly welcome.❤️
🌸 About Mei
My Chinese name is 杨梅. I was born in Yunnan, China, and have been living in the Netherlands for more than 25 years. My life’s work is centered on connecting people and cultures. From intercultural collaboration between Europe and China to accompanying overseas Chinese families, I have witnessed how understanding, empathy, and genuine connection can deeply transform relationships and family life in a new country.
In recent years, I have worked closely with first-generation Chinese parents living abroad. I have seen their loneliness, the challenges of parenting in a culture so different from their own, and their deep desire to support their children while carrying the ache of being far from family, friends, and ageing parents in China. At the same time, I have met their children—second-generation young people—intelligent and sensitive, searching for their own identity, balancing loyalty to their parents with the longing to find their own voice.
It is close to my heart to share systemic work and family constellations with both first- and second-generation Chinese people. I believe this work can become a bridge: a space where connection, understanding, and trust can grow, where both generations are free to make their own choices, and where they can meet one another more deeply—on a soul level.
Mei 💗 杨梅
Family Constellations Facilitator | Founder of MEEEI | Host of MEEEI HeartLight Podcast
www.meeei.nl
Make a Difference - Engage - Enable - Empower - Inspire
0613163900
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