Poly Stories | Me, My Metamour & I

About this event

ENM Storytelling Evenings | Treehouse NDSM (Amsterdam North)

THEME OF THIS EVENING: ME, MY METAMOUR & I

From one big love nest filled with affection and compersion to raised hairs and hissing - metamours are a bit like cats amongst themselves. Which relationship you get is a surprise, but work can always be done. What does this person awaken in you, or the other way around? Jealousy? Excitement? What’s behind this? The metamour is a different kind of acquaintance that many will not have. If you’re lucky, a lot of experience, insight and a potential friend are to be gained.

How your partner feels about the whole thing, is another important question. Maybe your partner wants to tell you everything about their dates, much to your discomfort. Maybe you’ve been dying to hang out with your metamour, but your partner likes to keep things separate. Maybe your partner’s lover is your former lover, or someone you kiss at parties.

Whatever the configuration: come gather with some like-minded people to exchange and learn from each other's perspectives and experiences.

This evening, different people will share their personal stories. Would you like to share a story yourself? Send a message to suzanne@suzanneallegonda.nl

THIS IS FOR YOU WHEN
This evening is for anyone—whether you’re just starting out or already experienced—in non-monogamy / open relationships / polyamory.

PRACTICAL INFO
Wednesday Jan 21th, 2026
• 19:00 doors open, program 19:30 – 21:30
• Location: Treehouse NDSM, Amsterdam North
• Max. 50 participants
• Language: English

POLY STORIES
Poly Stories invites you in an exploration of the wondrous world of non-monogamy through personal storytelling—together navigating the edges and unpacking (moral) dilemmas.
This evening is for everyone with a curiousity in the free shapes of love.

• Expect inspiring stories with Q&A
• The sharing of experiences and inspiration
• Love's wisdom to take home

Each evening revolves around a central theme. We co-create the night together. There is space to talk to others, ask questions and bring in your own experiences.

WANT TO SHARE A STORY YOURSELF?
Would you like to share a story this evening or one of the upcoming ones?
Send an email to suzanne@suzanneallegonda.nl

ABOUT THE ORGANIZER
Suzanne Allegonda is a relationship therapist specialized in non-monogamy. She has always been fascinated by human thinking and behavior. In her private practice she focuses on working with individuals and couples in ENM relationships. Over the past years, she has organized various lectures and workshops where philosophy, self-reflection and love and intimacy meet.